You need kindness and encouragement, not stomping on your dreams. But frankly, I don’t think you have any chance of getting into any combined BS/MD program in the US. They are hypercompetitive. And I think that the list of schools you gave are beyond reaches for you. I do think you have a chance at US schools which are less selective, those that accept 50% or more of their applicant pool, but I don’t think you’ll get merit aid. But you’re applying to highly selective schools, that mostly take fewer than 20% of their applicants from out of state if they’re flagship state schools, yet you’ve given them no firm data point that shows high academic qualifications. They have no basis to evaluate achievement at your school in Canada. You’re a US citizen, right? So you’d qualify for financial aid, but the less competitive schools are also less well-endowed, and most of your aid would be in the form of loans.
So again, it raises the question. Why pay so much to go to a non-competitive US school, when you have access to good schools in Canada, for so much less money? Why plan for med school in the US, when it will be SO much cheaper for you in Canada?
Were you able to take an SAT or an ACT, or even any SAT subject tests? I just saw that you’re the person who accidentally had scores sent, with an SAT of 1390, to a couple of schools, but you wanted to apply test optional.
Here’s the thing - that SAT of 1390 is not bad, it’s 95th percentile, and more importantly, it’s a hard data point that the colleges can look at to evaluate you, to put your 93% average at your high school in Canada into context. You can USE that 1390, and focus on somewhat less selective schools, and you’d likely get in. Paying for it would be another story, but I don’t know anything about your family’s financial standing.