Chiming in as one of my kid’s was recruited for T&F and received a Likely Letter to an Ivy, so a little different than NESCAC but similar model and it was T&F.
When our kid was recruited this was all new to us and we did not have Coll Conf to draw on for experience. The Ivy timing is different than NESCAC but we did feel pressure to commit but held off a bit until we had thoroughly checked out all the schools on our list, visited, etc. and made sure it was the #1 pick.
Good input from others and I would just add to make sure it is the best fit for your kid and your family and it’s their # 1 choice before committing.