<p>Nervousmom, if you’ve been asked to step out for awhile because of poor performance and you return for a second chance and you are asked to leave for good, you can pretty much guess that no grades are good. The OP’s son is 23…presumably at least 4 or 5 years out of high school and his head is not on academia right now. Fix the depression, tell him to get a job so he has a fixed routine and learns how to survive on his own and pay his way and wait until he “grows up” - if the physician is saying he’s “infantile” he has much to fix before thinking about college again. If he wants to take a class he should pay for it for starters and he should pick the class, then it’s all on him. </p>