I think it’s time for a sit down.
What’s most important- size? study abroad? major/minor? geography?
With just your D’s wish list and your need for “just looking for very good deals” we are all going to be wasting your time. It’s not going to help to hear about a fabulous opportunity in Minnesota if your D won’t go further than Pennsylvania, and it’s not going to help to hear about a really great merit opportunity but your D won’t be able to squeeze in study abroad in Asia without adding an extra semester (who can afford that?)
And what’s commutable for you guys? Could that be an option???