Just wanted to follow up here, in case anyone else is curious about the numbers.
From Seton Hall: $21,000 per year (puts net cost around 36K)
From Clark: $15,000 per year (puts net cost around 41K)
From Binghamton: $5,000 per year (puts net cost around 37K)
From U Delaware: Accepted, merit, TBD but 5K per would be the max, putting net at 42K
Awaiting Uconn, Umass, UVM, Buffalo, Denver
Will update if more are offered as decisions are still coming in.
Also worth mentioning: It’s become clear to me that because of our extremely high EFC (which is largely a penalty for living in a very high cost of living area we can just barely afford), if we want DD to go to what is considered a “good” school, and she prefers to stay close to home where colleges on average are just 10K a year more expensive, we’re going to see net costs in the 35-50K per year.