529 owned by a grandparent..does the beneficiary child have any "rights" to the money?

For the sake of clarity, I don’t think “revert” is the right word here, because unless the beneficiary was ever the legal owner of the account (and the facts here don’t indicate that), there is no beneficiary ownership status to revert to.

Because of privacy concerns, unless the OP or the beneficiary is designated as the contingent owner, I would be surprised if the account administrator discloses anything.