You maybe happy with the realistic chances being low, but the way you write about your search communicates a little differently. (I’m saying this because OP and I had some extensive PMs.).
“centered on my life over the past six years and demonstrate my character traits through life at the lake.” But one doesn’t get into a top college based on lake life. It’s interesting in lots of ways. But one still needs to prove out based on more. You will be compared.
You aren’t a subsistence level kid, working to feed the family. (Even those kids can do the “more” that gets serious consideration for an admit, trust me on that.) I suggested ways you could use having a home in the city to explore more, do more, even in bits. At first, you agreed.
You love your list. But the task us to get them to love you. That’s more than “character” because you help with the cabin, when relatives visit, have cut fish, repaired some docks, etc. They want to see a connection between your choices and college life, as they want it.
Choices represent thinking, awareness, willingness, and more.
I’ll answer more, if needed.