A Dilemma

<p>Congrats on the Camras! Now, assuming RH doesn’t come close to what IIT offers, comes the difficult choice of weighing personal preference vs. finances. Unfortunately, there’s no easy answer for this question. Every family has to consider what it values and how much weight to give to the relative differences between schools.</p>

<p>In our family, RH was eliminated before we even got to the financial aspect, but their relative lack of aid nailed the coffin shut. DS was in the opposite boat from you in that I think IIT was his first choice, but Bradley had the full tuition scholarship. He eventually decided to save his money for grad school and took the scholarship (it’s not like he didn’t like Bradley). Doesn’t mean that’s the right choice, but you’re going to have to choose one or the other and try to move on without regrets. Chances are that no matter which school you choose, you’ll be happy there and feel you made the right decision. Good luck!</p>