If the long term goal is med school, are you budgeted for another $400k plus on top of undergrad? Given where you go undergrad hardly matters for med school, why not take advantage of NMF largesse to help pay for med school - if help is needed (ie she can avoid or lessen loans)?
I put this from another thread (school list of residents at top academic hospitals) plus a special pre med program at one of the NMF schools where you’d go essentially free. There is more than one, of course. You mentioned NMF - this is how you can take advantage.
Just curious - but congrats - she’ll be great anywhere. I hope you post her results when done.