I disagree. This argument is the subject of a gazillion CC threads and I don’t think one side is ever going to convince the other.
I’ll point out again that we don’t follow this advice in other areas. For example, my area of law involves securities. It is possible to bring a criminal action if a company is accused of engaging in securities fraud or an individual broker is accused of stealing money from a client. However, the SEC can also bring a CIVIL action and the standard of proof is lower and there aren’t the same 5th amendment rights either. Then FINRA, a regulatory organization, can also bring actions and there is a lower standard of proof, much more liberal evidence standards, and no 5th amendment rights. And then if it’s a rogue broker, the firm can --and should–get rid of him/her, even if the evidence isn’t “beyond a reasonable doubt.” And the fact that the firm fired the broker because it thought he had stolen from several clients HAS to be disclosed on a legally mandated form which any customer who is considering doing business with him can find and read. Our system grants limited immunity to firms who disclose this, even if it later turns out the broker didn’t steal the money or forge the signatures, etc.
I used to work in house at brokerage firms, and I can’t tell you the number of times a broker who has been fired hired a labor lawyer inexperienced in the securities industry whose opening negotiation is “let my client resign voluntarily so he can get another job.” The firm can’t do this; it’s illegal. We learned the hard way that such brokers would go work for a series of securities firms, ripping off hundreds of clients until FINRA or the SEC finally stepped in.
This is true in many other areas. If a handyman is accused of raping 6 female tenants, the building owner/management doesn’t have to continue to employ him until he is criminally convicted of rape. (If he belongs to a union, then it does have to follow the procedures in the collective bargaining agreement.) In fact, it would be subject to lots of financial exposure if it did. If the six women all pursued criminal cases, it’s highly unlikely in our system that the jury would find out that there were 5 other women making the same claim–a fact that most of us would take into account.
Yet, so many parents on this board think a young man who has been accused of sexually assaulting a young woman–or multiple young women–on campus should be allowed to stay on campus unless and until he is convicted in a criminal court. They think the ONLY thing a young woman should be able to do is pursue a criminal action.
And time after time, a young man has withdrawn from the university before any disciplinary hearings are concluded and enrolled in another college which hasn’t a clue that disciplinary proceedings for sexual assault had been begun against him.
In the real world, if your boss calls you in and starts questioning you about money missing from an account over which you had signatory powers, you can’t say “I am not answering any questions until I engage a lawyer” or “I assert my 5th amendment privilege not to incriminate myself” and not expect you’ll be fired.
I have LOTS of issues with the way individual colleges handle these cases, but the idea that they should do nothing and tell victims that their hands are tied unless and until the accused is criminally convicted is mind boggling to me.