<p>One of my recs was missing, which was weird because they were both submitted well in advance through the Common App. I contacted my regional admissions officer and she told me to tell her if it was still missing in a week. One week later, it still was, so I told her and she checked which one was already in. She seemed very courteous about it…I don’t think asking one little thing counts as “harassment.” Just be sure to wait for about a week before asking.</p>