<p>OP, I know you love your mom. But she is not balanced and she is bad for you. If you move away, you will make new friends and have a new support system and new church family. </p>
<p>Get out. Please. </p>
<p>Get a Post Office box for any physical correspondence so your mom can’t thwart your plans. Pick the least expensive school that has a good program. And please make use of the counseling center. You will need the support. </p>
<p>Her behavior is not your fault. There is something wrong with her. You will never ever be able to please her. But you sound like a great young woman with a solid head on your shoulders. You have a good future ahead of you. </p>