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<p>There are no cousins. My children are the only heirs. For my kids, from us, everything including this house will be divided equally between them. Whatever we eventually do, we will make sure that our daughter understands the reasons behind our way of thinking and she will have a say. It is just that the son is older and was a part of his grandparents’ lives much more than his sister.</p>
<p>ETA: I may not be very clear about this. Our son may get this one house from his grandparents, but his sister will get another house (our home ??) as similar in value as we can make it. That’s what I meant by that our assets will be divided equally. The only concern I can see in the future is that, my son with his significant LDs, may need more help from us, but that is discussion for another day. Whatever we eventually do, the children will have input and we will take their opinions and feelings into consideration.</p>