<p>to echo zenkoan - my D and the friend she traveled with from her school were well aware of the exams and class commitments that their ro ho’s (did I get that right?) had. They kept in contact by phone and made arrangements to connect when they were not in the dorm. It was clear that all had a lot going on in addition to Admit Weekend. But the ro ho’s all seemed to leave an overwhelming impression that they cared, were interested, and wanted them all to commit to Stanford. It was extraordinarily welcoming, to my understanding.</p>