<p>^^ My older son was not accepted to Stanford and instead graduated from Berkeley mechE/materials in 4 years, no problem, and was accepted to MIT for grad school-so we didn’t have the Stanford vs Berkeley choice for her, but her outcome is great out of Berkeley. And she has no debt from undergrad.</p>
<p>just got confused… older son… then ‘her’? was that reference for the daughter?</p>
<p>i was reading & re-reading your post, cause im in the same situation now…, only we are lower middle class.</p>