<p>Bogibogi: one other thing. Your son is probably not lazy. Uninterested, yes. Lazy, no. Does he work hard and intensely on <em>anything</em>? Then he’s not lazy. </p>
<p>Very few of us put the same intensity into everything they do. I am hard pressed to imagine doing laundry with the same intensity I put into my dog agility training. I don’t think that makes me “lazy” about laundry; I think it makes me uninterested in laundry. I get it done… but not particularly well.</p>