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<p>Your daughter sounds like mine. She was first chair in all state orchestra as a junior. She was asked to play often on orchestras (everyone needed an oboe or English horn). BUT she was not interested in majoring in music. However, she attends a fine university, plays in the school orchestra, continues to take private lessons…and the like. She is an engineering/biology double major. She says music will always be part of her life…but it’s not her main career aspiration.</p>