ty for ur advice. regarding 1-4):
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yes
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yes
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not immediately after my first bad q, but yes
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my parents used to look at mental health pretty unfavorably. it’s like asking someone whos gay “why havent u opened up to ur parents” when they dont approve of gays. obviously b/c of hindsight i know that i shouldve told them asap but i wanted to avoid that no matter what. clearly failed but ¯_(ツ)_/¯
i appreciate ur opinion, but a 0.05% chance of success has better odds than 0%. maybe ill be “lucky”