<p>"This is horrible advice. Why should she be friends with someone she doesn’t like being with? "</p>
<p>Well since she refuse to report him, that’s Plan B…maybe then he’ll be satisfy and stop acting weird.</p>
<p>It is in your best interest to report this student. Please dont worry tht you are spoiling his reputation or sth. In truth, you will be doing him a favor. The college will get psychological counselling him I think and it will be hush hush. Plus reporting him will put him in touch of reality and he really needs that.
Meanwhile I advice you to carry a pepper spray and a whistle all the time. When you walk back in the nights, try to find a guy friend to accompany you.
Please don’t let your education suffer because of this jerk. I suggest you sign up for self defence class i.g martial arts or karate as well this summer or in school. I am not suggesting it just for your protection but also to build your confidence to stand up to this jerk.</p>
<p>Screw pepper spray, get yourself some heat and stay strapped.</p>
<p>OP:
Which country are you studying in at the moment? Right now, we’re just shooting in the dark in regards to what you can/cannot do about this situation.</p>
<p>What people have said is dead on. The thing I would like to add is this:</p>
<p>Save everythign he sends/emails/messages/texts/voicemails to you. This will give the hard proof that he is stalking you so that he can’t try to deny it. This will also give you the evidence to get a restraining order if you so desire.</p>
<p>Drash, giving in wouldn’t do anything but feed him. What he’s doing isn’t “weird”; it’s illegal and dangerous.</p>
<p>this guy sounds like a weird creep, please report him like everyone else has said on this thread.</p>
<p>and keep your proof (emails, texts etc) that he’s been stalking you. Hope everything will work out fine for u. Sory if i couldn’t be of more help.</p>
<p>Thanks for all the advice and support, I really appreciate it. </p>
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<p>I’m studying in the UK right now. </p>
<p>I was hesitant to go to the people at school again when they were so little help before, but I was thinking that maybe if I had my brother call them from home or asked a good friend’s parent to go with me while I’m at school then they might not write it off so quickly as just a regular crush again if I head back to show them the new messages that I’ve gotten. Maybe they were just busy or something last time, because I couldn’t even get anyone to let me block his e-mail address on my school account.</p>
<p>Ask yourself: Is putting your personal safety at risk worth attending this particular school in the UK?</p>
<p>Seriously consider the option to stay here in the states and keep the ocean between you and this stalker. If you were my daughter, I wouldn’t want you to return to that school. </p>
<p>Get a new telephone number. Keep it a “private number” so when you call someone, it doesn’t come on the caller ID. Also, change your online school profile so your address and phone number are not listed on the school directory. Don’t put any private info on your Facebook account.</p>
<p>I agree with nysmile. Stalkers have killed people whom they were obsessed with. Get as far away from that man as possible. Don’t underestimate the danger of being anywhere near him.</p>
<p>you can block him on facebook instead actually. Once you’re on his profile there is a block/report this person option so he can’t even search your name and come up with any info.</p>