Hi and welcome! You sound like a terrific candidate! What a wonderful way to carry on the legacy of your father by pursuing your own dreams in science.
My first suggestion is: click around and poke around and spend a few hours getting to know the BS landscape.
One good place to start:
http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-parents/2193849-completely-inexperienced-dad-looking-for-some-guidance-p1.html
But there are SO many other really helpful threads here.
I will echo the point mentioned above that you have a pretty heavily stacked group of schools. You may want to diversity a little if getting into BS is important to you.
Oh before I forget, if NY is a plus, maybe consider adding Masters school?