When you run the Net Price Calculators is the EFC you get for your dad a lot higher than the one you get for your mom? If your dad’s income is a lot higher the need based aid would be on the low side. Is your dad planning to contribute to your education?
You have to take aviation classes where you can afford them. If you get into an affordable residential college that doesn’t offer them then you can take them after you graduate. It wouldn’t have to be at a cc if you can afford to pay more.