<p>The idea of health insurance as we have now in this country seems so far stretched beyond what it was originally intended for, which was to help with the expensive things that could go wrong. </p>
<p>Not the basic preventitve stuff. </p>
<p>It kind of seems crazy to us now because some of us have plans (myself included) that didn’t cover the full cost of things so simple as vaccines, that our office visits were something wenpaid for and if we had blood work done, we paid for that, as well. </p>
<p>When my children were young, we paid for all of those things. If we hit our deductible and something else went wrong, then we used up our deductible and hoped for the best. Most times, we didn’t come close, and breathed a sigh of relief. </p>
<p>Our premiums were a whole lot lower, than, too. And quite frankly, costs for treatment were a little more obvious. We had a much better idea of the costs of these items - or maybe I did with our doctors because they were upfront about the costs. There were a lot of cash patients, too. With my first kid, no maternity insurance and so we set up a payment plan with doctors and hospitals. Yo do that today would scare me silly, because the costs are exponentially higher and not so transparent. </p>
<p>I remember about 15 years ago a dentist on our health plan that wanted my H to get a bite plate. He billed an e horbonant rate and when questioned, he said that if he did, than he would get the negotiated cost back from insurer. I was stunned. Since then, that is what I see for everything. If you are a cash patient and ask a doctor or dentist now what the cost would be without insurance, it can be much lower - if they even know what the true cost of service even is, nowadays. </p>
<p>That being said and getting back to the idea of bankrupting our families over medicalmcosts for those with a low qualitynof life, most of us have seen it firsthand or know someone who has endured it. I have seen it withna friend’s young son and now see what is happening with my MIL who has Alzheimer’s. </p>
<p>Personally, I do not want to live a life when I do not recognize my children’s faces, when my personality becames angry and physically dangerous to others around me. It is heartbreaking. I probably would choose to end it. For her, the costs are not financially painful, yet. The emotional costs are far more devastating. </p>
<p>EOL costs are almost always going to be that elephant in the room (as previously posted) and as our boomer generation gets older and lives longer, will be financially draining on families and our country. It is an emotional issue but something that we will have to get a handle on. </p>
<p>Mortality is not infinite. Neither is our ability to pay for it.</p>