<p>OP: I mean this in the kindest possible way. From your post it strikes me that you really want to go to Wellesley and would be happier there but feel you should do something different than your sister.</p>
<p>You shouldn’t feel that way. It’s quite an accomplishment to get accepted into both schools, and if a small environment is that important to you, I think you should choose Wellesley.</p>
<p>Barnard is cozy and welcoming, and Barnard women always have their own little campus to come home to, and their own department (in most cases.) Your thesis will be done from your department and you will have a close relationship with those professors.</p>
<p>However, in general, Barnard women are grateful for the opportunities both NYC and Columbia University bring into their lives. Most describe it as “the best of both worlds” small liberal arts college and opportunities of a larger university." If you don’t feel that way, perhaps Wellesley is the better choice.</p>
<p>From the beginning your orientation will be with Columbia Students and your orientation will introduce you to NYC. There is nothing cloistered about the experience.</p>
<p>My D found this exhilarating, although she was always grateful for her Barnard home. You might feel differently.</p>
<p>Good luck. You really can’t make a bad choice.</p>