Hmmmm - it’s waaaayyyyy too early to talk about schools like Haverford and other top 10. It’s even too early to talk about college at all.
But if you’re going to be shooting for the stats, then you shouldn’t be afraid of the workload.
Personally, I’d go to the nearby, convenient public. They all send kids to college. The colleges will understand the curriculum and evaluate it as such.
And I would cease any of this talk now - your student hasn’t even started hs.
Waaaayy too much pressure to go there.