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<p>I can completely understand this. But, as we have discussed on other threads, if your son gets drunk and has sex with an equally drunken girl, the official ball is in her court in terms of deciding whether it was consensual or not. He could find himself accused of sexual assault in a college disciplinary hearing that does not use the evidence rules of a criminal proceeding, even if they both “consented” at the time, because she is considered to be incapable of consent if she was drunk. The same apparently does not apply to him. He could find himself obligated to support a child, because they were too drunk to use protection. He could find himself with an STD.</p>
<p>This is leaving aside the possibility that in his drunken state he actually DID ignore her non-consent, whether that was active or passive. </p>
<p>Bottom line: drunken hookups are a really bad idea for all concerned for many reasons. Emotional, physical, and legal. Many think that the majority of sexual assaults go unreported, and that many of them are alcohol-fueled.</p>