<p>“My H now is so paranoid that he wanted me to call the parents of a kid, who was having a halloween party to ask them if there will be any alcohol.”</p>
<p>First of all, your own experience is that this is not paranoid at all. Secondly, what is so terrible about one parent calling another parent in an expresssion of concern? (Data I have from my own state shows that 4.6% of 8th graders - get this - actually drove a car while under the influence of alcohol. 11% of 10th graders had used prescription opiates to get high in the past month. Binge drinking among high schoolers is very high. Why not be concerned, and take steps to deal with it proactively?</p>