<p>My D, who is a senior now, has reported lots of alcohol and pot (I guess it’s “weed” among her peers) at her HS. She’s not into it and basically doesn’t get invited to parties because they know she’s not going to attend anyway. I’m lucky, I figure. What galls me is the parents (I’m thinking in particular of those who have sons) who have this position: the boys are sleeping over so I’ll take their car keys when they get here: they won’t be driving so I’m a good parent. I could go on, but point made.</p>