<p>1.) It’s ridiculous to compare language to academic ineligibility.</p>
<p>2.) Even so, all you’ve said was that you wanted to fit in. To use language like “out of my countrol” is absurd. Did you have a tendency? Of course. Were you statistically more likely to do poorly? Obviously. But “out of your control” is a ridiculous overstatement. Your academic career was always under your control.</p>