<p>Wow, I must chime in here. I deal with the consequences of sexual freedom in my office daily. I have been a gynecologist for over 20 years. The casual “hooking” up culture and the freedom of women to have sex as easily as sharing a box of popcorn these days keeps me very busy! I am sure you are aware of the HPV related diseases, not fully protected by condoms and hope Bowdoinchick and her girlfriends see a gynecologist on a regular basis for pap smears and birth control. But not only are STD and pregnancy related issues a problem but the psychologically impact this has on women (and guys) has been tremendous. I sit and talk with many of my patients who maybe like Bowdoinchick have never had a meaningful or lasting relationship and missed out on being courted because sex came first. Now at 35+years old, these same women want to know how to have their “eggs frozen” and cry that they are alone, want a relationship, want children but “slept” their 20’s away and let all the decent guys get away. The only thing they have left is being treated repeatedly for HPV related precancerous cervical disease. So guys and girls, think about your future and what you want instead of “instant gratification” in the present. It’s like saving your money for your future and not blowing it on an expensive pocketbook or a pair of shoes because it feels good in the moment.
And for all the guys out there who don’t want to sleep with Bowdoinchick and her friends there are plenty of girls who are looking for something more meaningful and long lasting and are willing to wait. There are still alot of 20 yr old virgins out there.</p>
<p>I hope you understand my message. I really do care and am tired of these young girls who cry in my office everytime I have to tell them they have HPV or chlamydia and ask “?where did I get that?” and then they finally grow up and are sad and lonely at 35 yrs old. So to college students and our youth, try dating. Save sex for that special someone. You will always remember your first time so maybe that person will be your partner for life. You may actually like it.</p>