<p>To Bowdoinchick, I appreciate your mature reply but I didn’t mean to judge you personally. You obviously think alot about your actions and perhaps you have a better handle on your life than some of my patients. I spend alot of my time listening and treating patients without “judging” but hope to use an open forum like this to get more girls to think about what they are doing and how it will affect them. Alot of girls are pressured into sex because that is what is expected and then they are not able to emotionally deal with the medical and emotional outcomes. I give up alot of unpaid time to deal with these issues and my heart breaks for these young women who are torn with this. I knew you’d give me some heat for my post but had to reach out to the few it might hit home with. But I am sorry if you thought I was judging you. That was not my attempt. Everyone has the right to make certain choices and part of growing into adult hood is how to live with the choices we make. We all make choices in our life that affect us one way or another, good or bad. It’s how we use these experiences that makes us who we are. I am still learning and trying to understand how different things are now but I see the other (medical,pychological) side.</p>