Andover or Exeter?

As a pretty conservative parent that has had 4 kids attend Exeter, the notion that Exeter is conservative is comical. All elite institutions lean heavily left. What I have seen at Exeter is a willingness to listen to all points of view. Good luck to the OP on making a decision that is right for your family. I hope you spend the time to attend revisit days and look through the course catalogs to make informed decisions that work for your family.