Everyone from Exeter is completely right, there has been a huge push this year to listen to all viewpoints, and we’ve had a lot of discussions about it. Of course, being a minority anywhere in any way can be difficult sometimes, but I think that Exeter is really taking a step forward in giving political minorities a voice, too.
Either way, going back to the OP’s questions about E or A, it’s all about how you feel. I originally wanted Andover because of Exeter’s “rigidness” and “conservative feel” (not politically, btw), but I realized that Exeter had everything I wanted and more and has been the best decision for me. I hope you make the right decision for yourself, but of course we all at Exeter hope that you’ll be coming to New Hampshire next fall <3