<p>Berurah, I am so so sorry. My dog, Maxi, was euthanized because of spinal problems leading to paralysis. Maxi was my childhood pet. I know the heartache. My kids had to experience the same with our guinea pig. She had to be euthanized because of abdominal tumors.</p>
<p>Hugs, Berurah and family, I’ve been quietly following Patch’s condition. I’m so sorry to hear the latest news.</p>
<p>I’m incredibly sorry to hear that, berurah. We went through a similar thing last year after we had to euthanize our bunny of 15 years after he fell out of his cage and shattered his leg. Hope y’all get through it ok. :(</p>
<p>Oh, Berurah, I’m so sorry.</p>
<p>Charly the Golden and I are crying big tears for Patch.</p>
<p>Berurah, my fuzzy girl and I send our heartfelt sympathy on your latest update. It must be so hard on all of you. I know you’ll make the best decision for Patch. I’m so sorry.</p>
<p>Berurah- So sorry to hear the not so good news. Are you getting a second opinion from a specialist before you decide? Our sweet Nikki (a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel) had a congenital heart condition, but he lived much longer than expected under the care of a wonderful canine cardiologist. Perhaps a consult with a good orthopedic specialist is worth a consideration. If that is not an option, and you have to make a hard choice, please know that Nikki is waiting over that rainbow bridge with moose-shaped chewtoys (his favorite) to share with Patches.</p>
<p>Berurah, I am so sorry your news. You have done everything possible to help Patch. I know that making this final decision is a terrible burden. I am sure that I am not alone in saying that I could feel the love you have and compassion you have shown for Patch. My heart goes out to you and your family.</p>
<p>I am so sorry to hear this, Berurah. You will know, perhaps when you visit him tomorrow, what is right to do. {{{Hugs}}} to you and your family at this hard time.</p>
<p>I’m so sorry to hear that Patch hasn’t recovered. I know you and your family will make a thoughtful and loving decision.</p>
<p>Berurah, I am so sorry to hear the sad news. It is a very difficult decision. We recently had to euthanize our 15 yo german shepherd mix after he evidently had a stroke. We had nursed him along for several months with mobility problems and GI problems–assisting him to eat, carrying him up even the one step into the house. When the stroke left him unbalanced on top of the other problems, we had to consider that we were hanging on to him without considering his quality of life. It was very, very hard, but I think the best decision for him.</p>
<p>Patch is very lucky to have had all of you as his family–if only all animals had such wonderful humans to love and care for them throughout their lives. Hugs and prayers to you all.</p>
<p>berurah, That is just heartbreaking news and I’m so sorry to hear it. 
My thoughts are with you, your family and Patch.</p>
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This is exactly where we are right now, and as you well know, it’s an ugly place. </p>
<p>After talking with the vet for a LOOOONG time tonight, I finally turned, looked him in the eye, and said, “If Patch were <em>your</em> dog, what would YOU do?”</p>
<p>He did not want to answer…told me it was really not a fair question, but then…he answered it. I am grateful to him because I <em>needed</em> a more objective answer to an emotionally-laden question, you know?</p>
<p>To be perfectly honest, this is the absolute WORST way this entire thing could have come down… :(</p>
<p>~b.</p>
<p>I’m so sorry to hear the heartbreaking news about Patch’s condition. My whole family has been rooting for your beloved canine friend, and we feel as though we know him…We are thinking of you!</p>
<p>:( Sooo sorry, soo sad. Having had many pets age, we have faced this before, all I can say is look Patch in the eyes and go with your gut. I have always been very happy to be holding my critters when the shot was given…some people don’t like to be that close to the process and many vets don’t recommend it, but I found it to really be important for me to be there holding my dog or cat and being the warm loving arms around them as this happened.</p>
<p>SO sorry, berurah. Will be thinking of you and your family-</p>
<p>Berurah, I wish I could do more than write the word {{{hugs}}} right now. </p>
<p>If, in your vet’s best estimate, it is time for you to let Patch go, please don’t second-guess yourself. I know it’s so very hard to make this decision, but I do believe you will have a peace about it once you have.</p>
<p>Euthanasia is, by definition, a mercy. Patch has and will most likely suffer as he is, so thank goodness you have the option of holding him while he gently goes to sleep.</p>
<p>We all love you and you are in our prayers…</p>
<p>Hey y’all~</p>
<p>As you can imagine, it’s been a rough night around here. But, I want you to know that I just walked past my computer and found my oldest D sitting here, crying softly, and clicking on page after page of your posts. You have brought her as much comfort as you’ve brought me, and I cannot adequately express my gratitude for your continued care and concern. {{{{{hugs}}}}} to each and every one of you.</p>
<p>love, ~berurah et al</p>
<p>I don’t think I ever cried so much as the night I had to say goodbye to Terra, my 13 1/2 year old collie-setter mix, who had been with me through thick and thin, and even earned us our 15 minutes of fame (and more!) by singing at Carnegie Hall in “Sonata for Piano and Dog”. I reminded her that last night of how very much she was loved and how very special she was, and how I hoped she would now be at peace. And I still miss her, almost 20 years later.</p>
<p>My thoughts are with your family, berurah.</p>
<p>(((((((Dear Sweet Berurah and your kidlets)))))))))) Patch was a very special part of your family, and you were so loving to him. You could tell from your notes and postings. It is so hard to say goodbye, to not have Patch’s bark, or cold nose to snuggle…I am holding you all in my thoughts…I am crying as I post this…I want you to know we all care…bless you dear ones. APOL</p>