Another Wedding Attire Quandary

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If you prefer a shorter dress, I think these work well with black tie.
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/pisarro-nights-beaded-mesh-column-gown-regular-petite/4908976?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FWedding%20Guest&color=021

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/alex-evenings-embroidered-sheath-dress-regular-petite/5324472?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FWedding%20Guest&color=500