<p>Breathfire, as difficult as it is for your family, it’s time to forge your own way in the world. I’m sure none of your family members would want to limit your future opportunities in life, and, for this reason, I suspect they don’t understand, not fully, what they are asking of you.</p>
<p>Apply where you want to go. Tell them of your decision. Let them adapt – and they will. Trust me.</p>