Any moms of gay sons? How did you choose dorm?

My son, who is straight, has a gay roommate. They were randomly assigned last year and decided to room together again this year.

I will not soon forget the panic I saw in the other boy’s mother’s face when my son started unpacking his bible and other Christian books. At first, I thought she was just afraid my son was going to be a jerk, but my heart really went out to her when I later learned why she was so worried. Christians have a deservedly awful reputation when it comes to the treatment of LGBT people.

But nearly two years later, they are still friends, and their shared space is a safe space for both boys. I hope your son finds a similar situation. It’s hard enough sending your precious kid to school without the added worry that they will be mistreated because of who they are.