@runswimyoga Sorry, I was certainly not trying to “invalidate” your son’s experiences
No, and I’m not excusing the behavior. I’m just saying that your son was better off not rooming with him. He can point out the legality all he wants, but there’s no changing ignorant. For me, even if the potential roommate was perfect in every other way, it’s not a person I’d want to live with for the next 9 months. But it seems to have worked out for your son, and since this post isn’t related the OP, I’ll bow out now.