<p>My son is a freshman this year and loves Oberlin. He chose to live in the first year experience dorm. He has had great first year and loves Oberlin. I don’t believe he has been drunk at all (this confirmed by older brother) and I would be shocked if he had done drugs just because of his personality. He just isn’t interested at all. I also have not sensed that he has been involved with anyone sexually this year. He still has had a great year, made lots of friends, and feels very connected to the place. </p>
<p>I think that Facebook is a place for people to try on new personnas and I wouldn’t necessarily believe everything you read there. I think you will be just fine. Be yourself and you will find others who have the same values that you do.</p>