<p>hey Shaquita, i too am going to Oberlin next year and have been to the facebook group/visited the campus. The girl i stayed with never partied or drank or anything like that, but she still had alot of friends and we had a really fun time regardless. I think Oberlin is a place of acceptance first and foremost, and if you look at the facebook group, there are ALOT of people with your conserns, i wouldn’t worry about it, we’ll all be ok either way.</p>