I have a younger high schooler who isn’t saying much yet, but is watching and is tired of visiting colleges on vacation. He is a high achiever, but I think I am the one who wants him to take it a little easier. The tension around this process is ridiculous, and also, we have discovered several colleges that can be seen as safeties, that we absolutely love and would be happy to have our kids attend. S20 was accepted to his Ed school and we were sad to have to pull those apps from safeties/matches as we had really become excited about them. So I think we will approach this in a more relaxed way with #2. So many great options!