Center, you could not be more wrong. There are multiple protections within the laws to protect the identities of victims of sexual abuse even if it is only “alleged.” 34 of 50 jurisdictions allow prosecution of private claims under “Jane/John Doe” anonymity provisions and that is just for ADULTS. Then add on the protections within the laws to protect minors in sex abuse cases which extend even further. Prosecutors and legislatures have realized the necessity of these rules and it is a mystery as to why you don’t also understand the need.
However, the mistake made here was by the school’s attorneys. They could, and should, have immediately sought a gag order that applied to all parties. If the family of the alleged victim wanted to elect anonymity, they can’t have it both ways, I.e. Speaking to media about the defendants while the defendants can’t speak about the plaintiff. Bad lawyering.