@musicdm My D did not attend any of the 8 or 9 schools she was accepted at either. I just want to say, it will be alright. My D is a college sophomore now and doing great! She opted to attend a local school (not take a gap year) and has never looked back. She applied and auditioned after May 1.
It was tough on our whole family to accept at first and I think she wondered about her decision and possibly was embarrassed when she had to tell people- everyone knew of the traveling and auditioning and the outcomes.
There is no doubt in my mind that this was the right thing for her, we just didn’t know it! Please don’t despair. It may be what is meant for him!