@Calliemomofgirls and @Altras , thanks for your messages. I hope you continue to help anyone who needs your help.
I hope my statements did not offend you (or anyone) here. I simply hate to see anyone be advised to give less than their best effort in trying to achieve any goal. Some people have the benefit of being able to succeed with less effort. Others are in positions where anything less than their best and overextended effort will result in failure. My goal is to make sure the OP leaves nothing on the floor - if he truly wants it.
I’m sure the OP appreciates all the helpful advice provided in this thread and prior threads. And I’m sure your advice is appreciated.