<p>PatheticHopeful: For the record I agree that Stanford is a great school but there are others. You make it sound as if its Stanford or bust for you. There are schools that are extremely good and can help you achieve your dreams and goals. And some of these schools may be more obtainable. Stanford is a reach for anyone. Certainly your compelling life story may give you an edge but it can do that for you at other schools too. I’m confused as to why its Stanford v. state schools or cc’s. Your family income should afford you a good portion of financial aid at many schools. Just some food for thought but Notre Dame is a fantastic school, that gives out great financial aid and being an urm is an advantage at ND, considering its lack of diversity. A degree from ND is stellar and reputable. So why did you put all your eggs in the Stanford basket? Why not look at some other schools ranked in the top 20. They are fantastic and will certainly aide you in getting out of the life of poverty you speak of. </p>
<p>BTW, Kudos to you for being strong and having dreams. I commend your attitude, just know that there are other options. You will make it. You can do it!! Don’t ever give up.</p>