<p>“You are a well-to-do professional, therefore I am under the impression that you have the power of school choice. Was it not possible to find a school that was academically excellent and offered “affinity group[s]”?”</p>
<p>You have asked me this before, and the short answer is no. Using what I have learned on college confidential, there are no “academically excellent” schools within 45 miles of where I live. I don’t know if there are some 50 or 60 miles away, but they would involve at least one bridge, and maybe giving up a huge part of my income to drive my kids around.Income now (with college loans to pay now), or Fab’s schools with socioeconomic diversity in 15 years? I did not look. I did not even know what academically excellent WAS until I came to CC, through a google search. I could not believe that kids took SAT classes, or took them more than once.</p>
<p>So there are four schools in my city;</p>
<p>two publics; zipcode x goes here, zip code y goes there; one marginally better than the other; both offer about 8 AP’s; </p>
<p>one charter (which used to be for the kids who couldn’t cut it elsewhere, but is now for kids that want a small school, can handle a waitlist and the rules, and don’t need varsity sports, AP’s etc)</p>
<p>one “christian”; the one I picked when my D was 4 and son was 1. I was just out of the military, and I picked my kids school because they offered early kindergarten. Period. I had no idea this choice would have ramifications down the road.</p>
<p>That’s why young adults without kids get a pass. Having kids really changes your perspective. </p>
<p>When my husband started talking about saving for college ( What??? Parents pay for their kids to go to college? And other parents talked about sending there kid’s to public schools for more AP classes so they could go to a UC, and my kids said no…those are not my values…I felt stuck. I ended up at CC, and I was blown away.</p>
<p>“Yes, I am in favor of socioeconomic preferences.”</p>
<p>Here’s the thing; I suspect once you start tweaking at the level you describe, you are going to end up with a disproportionate amount of kids YOU think deserving, without the money to spend on what they “deserve”. Not being in this business, I don’t know for sure, but that’s how it is with other things, like “spectrum” diagnosis in mental health.</p>