<p>No, I never said that my only goal in parenting was to get my kids into a Top 20 school., and I absolutely have never conveyed Ivy-or-bust to them. I said that when I came on here, my considered-set was more along the Top 20 and from listening to posters here, I’ve learned more about fabulous schools that I wouldn’t have known much about, and learned more about the importance of fit.</p>