<p>Make sure your parents understand that Caltech is a private school, not one of the public Universities. Many people are concerned about the economy and how its effecting the UCs. </p>
<p>Earthquakes: Natural disasters can happen anywhere. Hurricanes, floods, tornados, fire, etc. It really doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me for people to worry about California earthquakes when natural disasters occur everywhere. And I also understand that earthquakes can occur anywhere - probably even where you live now. </p>
<p>Also if there is an earthquake in southern California, I understand Caltech is one of the safest places to be. </p>
<p>Distance: going away from school is hard. Find out what part of it is hard for your parents. Is it the cost of airfare to go home for holidays and vacations? Maybe you could tell them you’ll help pay the difference in airfare if you get in. For some parents though its more of an “emotional distance” thats an issue ("my baby going sooo far away). From my perspective: my son was in Japan this summer and while at first it felt like it was so far, once he was there, it really wasn’t much different than having him down in Pasadena and me in California. Kids going away is really just something parents must get used to. </p>
<p>Narrow focus: tell your parents its what you want. (I’m assuming it is otherwise you wouldn’t be wanting to apply to Caltech or MIT). </p>
<p>Good Luck!</p>