At the end of the day, parents are the last people in the world that have the right to play that role of the therapist if their child doesn’t get accepted into the top school, for parents in the first place form that child’s character to never settle. I can see that, what you should se before your child enters high-school. So mind your whining, you created your child that way. I am not saying its a BAD not a GOOD thing that you did. But you should be the last person to come in the front lines and say “life continues” “it does’t matter” “don’t be so harsh to yourself” ect. and correct me if I am wrong.