People here will help, but in general, a quick-and-dirty way to chance yourself for schools is to compare your stats to the school’s mid 50% stat range (available in the school’s CDS or on its web site, although for any special competitive programs you may need to check for another set of stats) and then plug the schools into this matrix based on their selectivity (method stolen from College Kickstart):
Also, very sorry to read about your car accident. That happened to my ex husband in his 20s, and I remember how tough the rehab was.