At Columbia, how common is dating/hooking up with people in NYC?

<p>There are no shortage of hot girls at NYC bars, lounges and clubs, but if you decide that’s your target audience, you’re competing against the legions of young, successful bankers and businessmen to get their attention.</p>

<p>At Columbia, guys are neither as attractive nor spend as much time or assertiveness trying to get girls, when compared to the theoretical average guy. Most people on campus have too much work to do to bother making themselves pretty and finding members of the opposite sex. When they do try, their natural wit and youth bails them out most of the time, though.</p>

<p>There are 4 sororities on campus, and at least two of them have some of the hottest girls in the University (which includes Barnard). You can rush for a frat and be going to parties with them every weekend if that’s what you want.</p>

<p>Bars are hardly the only places to meet women, too. There are approximately 5,726,901 concerts held in the 5 boroughs every weekend. There are a ton of art museums that girls flock to. It’s not hard to meet women at all. What’s hard is being witty, confident, and genuinely interested in someone you’re talking to. If you can do that, you’d get laid in saudi arabia, to say nothing of new york.</p>